October 17th, 2005

Frenemies

Posted by ver0n1c4 at 06:43 AM on October 17, 2005 in Daily stories.

Two events that trigger me to write this entry:

1. At the small gathering after first NGM this academic year (30 Sept 2005), one of my friends said that after working we tend to "lose" our humanity. Meaning? We care to other people less than before. We don't want to know about what happened around us. Even if we chat with our friends it's hard to concentrate on what they said.

True ? Hmmm for me it's more or less true... About one month ago, two friends said the same thing. They said, "Hey at last we do really chat ya Ver." Hehe it is not I never notice that before. It just happened that I feel tired and sleepy everytime I go back from office. So sorry.... Sighz....

2. Watched "Tentang Dia" at my lovely computer last week. I never knew that would be the last time I used my PC to watch movie... After Network Card and VGA Card problem, I think I'll use my laptop from now on.... Adios my faithful compie . Back to "Tentang Dia". It's a story about a girl who has been betrayed by her boyfriend and best friend. So when there are one boy and one girl who want to be her friends, it's hard for her to trust them. She even utter some harsh words to the girl who really wants her to be happy. Well, sounds cliche is it? What touched me is, even after being hurt by the first girl, the second girl still hope that her friend will be truly happy. Too bad, the first girl found out about this after the second one died because of an accident.

Lessons? Many! I remembered the term "Frenemies" from Sex and The City. It's when your best friend turns to be your enemy just because of relatively small matters. And both of you are just too selfish to say sorry and talk about this again. Been there before? Yup, I have.... And it takes quite a long time to settle the things and back to normal .

Back to case no.1. I still have a number of long lost friends to chat with. And I don't know where to start. Sometimes I called them on MSN, but they're too busy *like me *.

Last thing, if you're my friend and it's been a long time since we had a warm and nice chat, here is one poem I found from internet.... specially for u

Quiet Emotions
by Judy Burnette
 
I always wanted more from you
than you were willing to give;
So now we've gone our separate ways
each with different lives to live.

The bond will always be there
the friendship always intact;
But the time for us has come and gone
and the pages of time, you can't turn back.

I will always be a friend to you
and wonder how you are;
The smiles and laughter I will remember
and our fights have become painless scars.

Sometimes on those busy days
when you've a thousand things to do;
Please let me glide slowly through your mind
and spend some time with you.

In that quiet moment
when you're surprised to find me there;
Just remember even with the distance between us
I am still someone who cares.

Currently watching: Just Looking For Daniel
Currently feeling: nostalgic

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